About Me

Jonas Alexander
Grodhues

From drama to lasting love.

12 years. 5 continents. My own toxic relationship, as a coach. Three years of shamanic training in Peru.

Not theory. Not books. My own transformation.

12Years
17K+Newsletter
5,000Coaching Calls
800+Clients
Jonas Alexander Grodhues - Relationship Coach for hyper-analytical elite women
In 60 Seconds

The
Short Version

Grew up in Germany's Saarland, trained in hypnosis in my twenties, then 11 years traveling the world as a digital nomad. Australia, Bali, Thailand, Paraguay, Mallorca.

Right in the middle of my best coaching years: three years trapped in a toxic on-again, off-again relationship in Mexico. Losing control. Self-worth on the floor. Business suffering. As a coach.

The turning point came in 2023, not through talking. Through deep hypnosis work in Mexico and, after my first sacred ceremonies back in 2022 in Panama, my tenth ceremony in Peru in December 2024. What I learned there changed everything. Now I'm passing it on to you.

What Sets Me Apart

Four Things That
Make Me Different

1
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Perspective

Male Clarity

Most relationship coaches are women. They understand women, but they only know men from books. I was that man who ghosts, who's scared, who pulls away. I know exactly what's going on in his head.

2
💎
Mirror Experience

I've Been There

Toxic relationship. Drama. Losing control. As a coach. The tools that took me from analyzing to feeling, I give to you. Not from theory. From my own transformation.

3
🌿
Deep Work

Spiritual + Practical

Sacred ceremony in Peru. Hypnosis with trance states up to 8 hours. Breathwork, Kundalini, frequencies. No surface-level tips. Real energetic transformation.

4
🎯
Nothing Off-the-Shelf

100% Individual

No "12 steps to get your ex back." No canned programs. Every woman is different. Every man is different. I work one-on-one, every hypnosis, every coaching session, every retreat tailored to you.

12 Years of experience in relationship transformation Since 2013. From Bali to Peru.
5,000 Coaching calls since 2018, most of them myself No assistant. No team. Me.
265 Women have been through the Liebescomeback method 57% come back for more.
2024 Sacred Ceremonies in Peru December 2024 · Shamanic techniques · Energy work.
17K+ Newsletter readers Weekly. Qualified elite women.
57% of clients come back, again and again Loyalty is the most honest social proof.
Cert. Certified Hypnotist Germany · Theta waves · 3 to 8-hour trance states.
The Journey

From Saarland
to Peru

Germany → Australia → Bali → Thailand → Paraguay → Mexico → Peru → and back. Not as a tourist. As a student.

1991 – 2012

The Beginning

Grew up in Germany's Saarland. Mother a psychologist, father a teacher. Spirituality was normal at our dinner table. In my early twenties: NLP, then hypnosis training. Stage hypnosis at weddings, but I realized it went far deeper than entertainment.

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Jonas Alexander Grodhues - Childhood in the Saarland, early years I was born on July 29, 1991 at 10:22 PM in Dudweiler, in Germany's Saarland
Jonas Alexander Grodhues - Australia and Bali, starting out as a digital nomad in 2013 Port Hedland, Western Australia, the leap
2013

The Leap Into the Unknown

Left Germany. Australia, working the mines, saving money, then: Bali, Thailand, Malaysia, Dubai. On a beach in Bali I started filming YouTube videos. The first questions came from women. Relationship questions. I helped wherever I could. It worked.

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2014 – 2018

20,000 People
Who Trust Me

Built an email community of over 20,000 people. E-books, video courses, a book. In 2018 the first high-ticket coaching clients came in. I shed my shyness. Started running discovery calls. Since then: 3,000 to 5,000 coaching calls, most of them myself.

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Jonas Alexander Grodhues - First YouTube videos at Kuta Beach, Bali, 2014 First YouTube shoots, Kuta Beach Bali 2014
Jonas Alexander Grodhues - Traveling Paraguay and Thailand, 2019 Paraguay, 2019, investor trip with Sergio from Goodbymatrix
2018 – 2021

The World as My Classroom

Paraguay, Mallorca, Thailand, always on the move, always learning. A relationship with my Taiwanese girlfriend, time together in Thailand. The coaching kept growing. I ran calls, helped others through relationship crises, and believed I had it all under control.

Then came Mexico, and everything changed.

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2021 – 2024

My Own Chaos

Here's the wild part: me, a relationship coach, spent three years in a toxic on-again, off-again relationship in Mexico. Drama. Losing control. Business suffering. Self-worth on the floor. I could help everyone else, but myself? Complete chaos.

That is exactly what makes me different from any coach who only teaches from books.

MexicoOn/Off3 Years
Episode 1 · Podcast
The whole story, and the things I never share publicly
28 min
Jonas Alexander Grodhues - Mexico, toxic on/off relationship, the low point Mexico, 2021 to 2024, the chaos
Jonas Alexander Grodhues - Turning point and transformation in Mexico, 2023 The transformation, Mexico 2023
2023

The Turning Point

In the middle of Mexico. I developed a hypnosis process to release blocks and tested it on myself. In a deep trance session I recognized an ancient karmic pattern, the same dynamic of giving and losing control that kept repeating in that relationship. The moment I saw it, the pattern broke.

Within two months: self-worth back. Control back. Business back.

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December 2024

The Shamanic Journey

Peru. Not as a tourist, as a student. Sacred ceremonies in the forests and the mountains. Different shamans. Day. Night.

I learned this: some blocks cannot be solved in the mind. They have to be transformed on an energetic level. Ancient techniques from the Amazon that have worked for thousands of years.

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Episode 2 · Podcast
What I learned in sacred ceremonies
26 min
Jonas Alexander Grodhues - Sacred ceremony Peru, shamanic training December 2024 Sacred ceremonies, Peru December 2024
2025 – Now

Back. And Ready
for What Comes Next.

After 11 years, back in Germany, but not forever. Retreats in Bali, Thailand, Costa Rica. 2026: Egypt with exclusive pyramid access. Weekly podcast. AI coaching with Sophia. Retreats worldwide.

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Jonas Alexander Grodhues - Relationship coach, back in Germany 2025 2025, and the next chapter begins.
How I Work

My Tools

I combine Western psychology with shamanic wisdom. The result: tools that go deeper than any conversation ever could.

1
🧠
Foundation

Hypnosis

Deep trance states (theta waves) that can last 3 to 8 hours. Tailored to your specific situation. No canned recordings.

2
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Body

Breathwork

Wim Hof, Holotropic, Pranayama. Your breath is the fastest way out of your head. No conversation can do what your breath does in minutes.

3
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Shamanic

Sacred Ceremonies

Ancient techniques from the Amazon. Energetic cleansing methods that have worked for thousands of years. Optional on retreats, for those who are ready.

4
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Measurable

Frequencies

432 Hz, 528 Hz, theta waves. I create custom frequency tracks for your specific blocks. Scientifically measurable. Not woo-woo.

5
🔗
Core Work

Releasing Blocks

You are hyper-analytical. That is your strength at work, and your obstacle in love. I build the bridge between your head and your intuition.

6
🔥
Intensive

Kundalini Activation

Dormant energy that transforms everything once it awakens. Through breathwork, movement, and sound. Intense. Not for everyone. Life-changing for those who are ready.

What I Believe
"I am not a guru.
Not a master. Not some enlightened being.
I am a student, just like you."

I grew up Christian. I believe in Jesus Christ, in God, and at the same time in reincarnation, karma, and energy work. For me there is no contradiction. Holistic spirituality. I make mistakes. I have doubts. That is exactly what makes me authentic. I am not sitting on some high throne, I am sitting right next to you.

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Voices

What Women Say After Being
Transformed

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★★★★★

$7,900 for the VIP Mentoring with Jonas was worth every cent. The intensity of the personal support and the weekly calls, you don't get that anywhere else.

Lisa · 35 · IT HR Manager
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★★★★★

As a pediatrician, I'm used to making fast decisions. The VIP Mentoring was the best decision I made for my relationship. The personal access is priceless.

Dr. Lena · 42 · Pediatrician
4.9 ★
800+ paying clients since 2015
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★★★★★

This test is a serious wake-up call. I knew I'd been making myself smaller, but I had no idea I'd let it go that far.

Nadine · Federal Police
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★★★★★

Queen Challenge, day 1, wow. Jonas, thank you for this eye-opener. Even after everything I've already achieved working with you, that very first day reveals so much.

Sabine · Participant
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★★★★★

Hey Jonas, the hypnosis was amazing. The awakening has begun. Thank you so much for it.

Sabine · 48 · Dresden
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